Personal reflections on voluntary assisted dying (Voluntary Assisted Dying Board Annual Report 2023-24)

The Voluntary Assisted Dying Review Board values and appreciates the rich and insightful feedback provided by patients, families, health practitioners and members of the community regarding voluntary assisted dying. This feedback helps us understand how well our voluntary assisted dying program is meeting the needs of the community and our workforce.

Reflection 1

‘I'm very thankful that this option was one that my father had access to. He was fully cognitive before taking the medicine and it was a peaceful death. My own feedback would be the time frames, I feel they were too long from initial meeting to delivery. The whole process from initial meeting was 14 days. Ideally, I think it should be 5 to 7 days. We were very pleased with the professionalism and empathy shown by all involved.’

Reflection 2

‘I was so impressed by the way the system was put together and the people who interacted at every stage with us so I feel compelled to say that initially it can be a bit daunting, until you get your head around the whole concept. Given that people are all individuals and can indeed be “funny cattle” I was really impressed by ALL of the people involved. They really did know their areas of expertise but at the same time they were so compassionate but made it easy to gain both the all the information and some support from them. Whoever (presumably quite a few people and wise minds) drew up and planned the process have created an excellent model for this process that is by it’ s nature sensitive.’

Reflection 3

‘Just thank you for being so understanding and kind. When xx found out she could access the prescription she felt safe. We call you all angels, not like the ones in books but the real angels you can see and touch and talk to. You helped my (name deleted) pass and I don't have the words to explain how grateful me and (name deleted) will always be. One day I will need you.’

Reflection 4

Thank you for ensuring xx could live on his terms until the end. He was a sick man but determined to live his way. As sad as I was to say goodbye, I was proud of him and the choices he was able to make.
Our family wishes most sincerely to thank the Navigator Service and all who supported him through the VAD journey. Although he didn’t make it to his nominated date, it gave him great comfort knowing that he was able to make the request to have agency over his death and that he was treated with such respect and compassion by the VAD providing doctors.

Reflection 5

'The word ‘ethical’ keeps coming to mind when I think of our family’s interaction with the VAD process and the Care Navigator Service. I think that best encapsulates the mix of principle, professionalism, and kindness. Thank you.’