Supporting a Woman after Sexual Assault
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Rape is a crime of sexual violence that affects both women and men. When supporting someone who has been sexually assaulted, it is important to recognise that, above all, people need:
It is fundamental to regain a sense of control over life, as the assault may leave feelings of helplessness and loss of power.
This may appear to be basic but it is often the case that the person is not believed, or is questioned in a blaming or accusatory way.
It is unhelpful to make assumptions about what has happened. People need to be able to tell of their experience in their own words and at their own pace.
This may include providing either privacy or company as needed. Assistance to find safe accommodation may also be needed.
Do not ask 'why' questions. It is important to remember: no-one deserves to be raped.
It is important to understand sexual assault as a life-threatening experience. The trauma is often not related to physical injury but to the threat of violence.
Sexual violence is an abuse of power and control, and support is needed. This may include: